With that fire underneath you, you set out and did just that. But now that you’ve been putting in the time for someone else’s dream you feel less impactful and more like a pawn. Also, because you were taught to follow the rules so you don’t risk losing your job, you feel uncomfortable showing up authentic and default to leaving your personality at the door along with your dreams.
Read MoreThe people pleasing habit stems from the innate need to be welcomed in to a tribe. I do believe that being a part of a tribe is definitely something that is healthy and can be productive, but some tribes, especially those who make you lose yourself, are the tribes you want to steer clear of.
Read MorePerspective is one of those topics that I love to discuss. I remember one of my close friends and I used to be fascinated by the concept of one event spewing multiple viewpoints. I know, I know it sounds simple, but it isn’t so simple for someone who is only moving based on themselves and not considering their interactions with others in the world. That’s not to say we have to put a heavy emphasis on their perspectives, in fact that’s what brought us here, but it is very important to be aware that not everyone is thinking, understanding and feeling how you feel. It’s also important to realize if you aren’t aware of your own perspective you can lose sight of your voice.
Read MoreOne of the most common reasons why women don’t know their worth is because the first male figure in their life who is thought to model and teach them their value is absent. So I did some research. Fatherless women usually try to determine their worth by accepting any attention from men that makes them feel wanted instead of understanding the value of self. That means she usually is receptive of disrespect, she usually seeks validation from compliments from others opinions--in person or online and she constantly questions herself, wondering if she is good enough for love. Let’s look into what that means and what someone experiencing this can do to strengthen their self esteem.
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